In short, SSRI's may very well be responsible for many of our situations. But getting our spouse off of them will not magically fix things either.
I agree with this statement. While I don't blame the medication itself for contributing to our S, it is responsible for pushing my passive-agressiveness to the extreme. It helped me a lot dealing with my depression and anxiety, but it also may ultimately lead to my divorce.
That being said, I'm on different medications now, in therapy to address my issues, and getting myself healthier for the DB journey I'm on. The meds help. But it's not something that makes everything instantly better.