Finally, are you sure there isn't an OM? In my experience most Ws don't move on from "a catch" unless there is someone waiting in the wings. It really doesn't change anything you need to do, but just be aware that likely there is someone else, even if just a male confidant that is advising her she should leave you, that she deserves better, etc. An EA essentially.
Tarzan (WalkAwaySpouse) never lets go of one vine (LeftBehind) until he has a firm grip on another vine (NewPerson).
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
