Hi Klau, Getting a MC in L.A.? Or any part of CA? I'd be so scared of that in itself! I was in San Diego 14 years ago for some job training, that was the first time I saw gas pricing starting with a "2".
Yeah- La La Land is fun. My commute is 70 miles a day and my kids school is 10 miles from the house. we're all crazy living here.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Get back in your bed, be the man. That doesn't mean you're smarter and better than anyone, but the man has a role to play and even feminists are statistically more attracted to manly men.
I hear ya...need to execute on that one.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Don't fear her leaving. If she says you need to leave or else she will, then let her leave. She may be bluffing, and maybe not. Either way do not abandon the home. If she runs off with the kids maybe you have a super secret GPS on her car or something, I dunno. Is this a real concern?.
I'm not leaving if it comes to that unless we really work through a plan, but at the moment my mind is on working hard to make it work. I don't think she would take the kids and run...not her style.
You have to kick your communication out of "Auto-Pilot". Those cycles where you have the same fight over and over again got you here, so 180 on that.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
When she talks R, you validate, you listen. If you need clarification or better understanding, ask questions. Women love to feel like you care about what they are saying. Also, realize that people, her included, can feel more than one way about things. If she seems to be flip flopping, don't bust her chops over that. I say that because it's something I have done.
And why shouldn't she be fearful the you/we won't change? It's been this way for a while right? So you have to show her it can change, not convince it can.
