I agree with your basic premise, Benito. For David to really progress, it is imperative to really focus on what is important to him and become and embody that new David2.0.
That said, I 100% disagree that the best and only path forward is to file for divorce. To me, divorce is a legal issue. If there some advantage you need financially or in custody or for personal protection....then sure, go ahead and file.
You disagree? But yet state its ok if its financial or for personal protection...
In the meantime he is getting money stolen from him and kids taken without his consent.. it IS for financial and personal protection.
Your entitled to your opinion, but to suggest to try and work on a relationship that his in laws have been hoping come to an end, his wife has been abusing his trust and stealing his money is behond me.
You think all of sudden after DBing for a few years his wife is going to change her spots and give him the money back?
No, it will happen again.. just like the other person did to him before hand. He needs to be out of that unloving toxic environment.
Not saving every marriage isnt against the rules.. its about being smart and if you think his best option is to leave the door ajar for this women then fair enough.
The process that is needed i.e. a deep introspective look into yourself etc.. is something i dont believe from posts he has started to the level that is needed to start a healthy journey forward.
