Well she’s home and hasn’t asked me to come up and talk however she did ask me for number of therapist that I found for her a month ago that she never contacted hmmmmm
Interesting. Sounds positive?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
Well she’s home and hasn’t asked me to come up and talk however she did ask me for number of therapist that I found for her a month ago that she never contacted hmmmmm
Interesting. Sounds positive?
Yes it is positive. The R talk you don't have is always better than the one you do have.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
I have to give you guys credit...I remained NC last night and at 4AM she burst into my room saying I am pushing her away.....I didn't buy her the shakes that she takes to work, where was this and were was that in the kitchen (that I cleaned and put away)....and the laundry basket is full of just her clothes! So she was doing laundry at 4AM.
Then it continues into the AM about how I had moved on and who was I with the other night when I came home at 9:30...meanwhile she is gone weekends long. Then the text tirade started while I was taking my son to school how she will always love me even though I moved on and I have hurt her so bad and she is alone and will always be alone and more BS about how she is the victim. Of her 30 texts I sent one back while I was leaving validating her being upset and my desire to give her the independence and space that she asked for.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
I have to give you guys credit...I remained NC last night and at 4AM she burst into my room saying I am pushing her away.....I didn't buy her the shakes that she takes to work, where was this and were was that in the kitchen (that I cleaned and put away)....and the laundry basket is full of just her clothes! So she was doing laundry at 4AM.
Then it continues into the AM about how I had moved on and who was I with the other night when I came home at 9:30...meanwhile she is gone weekends long. Then the text tirade started while I was taking my son to school how she will always love me even though I moved on and I have hurt her so bad and she is alone and will always be alone and more BS about how she is the victim. Of her 30 texts I sent one back while I was leaving validating her being upset and my desire to give her the independence and space that she asked for.
DBing works. It is as simple as that. Don't let your guard down.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Be careful not to break into pursuit mode. Right now she's just trying to confirm you are still Plan B, if you give her that then she'll go cold and distant again. So don't give it to her, just keep up with your DB'ing and let her pursue. Let her think she may be losing you.
