Happy Belated Birthday! I am so sorry that your h wasn't w/it and sent a card, but he's off in his own little world.
Coly, I have to agree w/Andrew 100%. You need to cut him loose. He's not going to do a darn thing because he's got the best of both worlds. It's time that Coly created a new life for herself and leave him at the curb. He's certainly not making any move to make you a priority in his life...why? Because he knows that you are right where you left him. Coly, if you only have 6 months to live, what would you do? It's more than time for Coly to think of herself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
