Originally Posted by DavidUK
Amoafwl - "share what you would want shared with you" I don't think it would make any difference because of her state of mind, and I can't trust her.

I think it is precisely this attitude that is so so so frustrating to the people here.

I didnt say share with her what you EXPECT to be shared back. It doesnt MATTER what she decides to do.

It is about YOU and YOUR values.

If the shoe were on the other foot what would you want to be shared with you? Thats the level of information you should be sharing.