I see the unsolicited videos to the kids are continuing. I figure still without much text, if any, from their Dad.
Very happy to see you got a prep talk from child’s friend’s Mom. I like this Mom, she is supporting my good friend OneArt.
You are “doing such a great job”, don’t ever doubt that.
That inevitable question of marital status - providing an accurate answer to people is complicated. Actually, I think the complication is providing an accurate answer to yourself. Until that is resolved you can’t really answer other’s questions about it. I do suppose people in a DivorceCare group will understand and speak the same lingo, different from the general population. You might even find a better description, although estranged is pretty darn good.
Hang in there One, you’re doing great.
Btw my spidey senses have been buzzing away lately as well. However, your’s sound to be more real. I’d pay attention to it, but not worry too much about it.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.