Saw C today.... She said W will come around and its just a temporary thing that is going on,just use a bit of reverse psychology on her...I feel im getting far better guidence from you folks that are in the trenches with me.
The struggle is real!!
Decided to cut all money from W . When she contacts me about it im going to say 1. it was her decision to live this way and i will no longer be helping finance her new life. 2. D will get a bank card for anything she needs. As much as i want to mention her moving on with someone else i wont!!
I have some questions for Sandi i hope you read this... How do i find the balance to let W know that i care and want to be with her without being clingy or needy and being strong letting her know im not her little B#%ch anymore?
Should i just leave her and D alone and not pursue seeing D but rather wait till D wants to see me.Its clear in my mind D is on mums side(i hate saying like its W against myself) I message D all the time but barely get a reply. Im pretty sure D lies for W and hides the truth from me which breaks my heart.I use to see MIL do the same thing to FIL . Wife had become a product of her environment and now D is following in the family tradition aswell...D and W knows i cant stand liars,is that a reason why they both do lie to me fear of being called out for lying?
Are things that screwed up at this point i dont know what whether this is all just a waste of time and i should give up and walk away.
