Just starting a new thread as the old one reached its limit. Thank you everyone who posted at the end if the old thread. I will respond to those posts but right now I am in need of some words of encouragement. I am aware of the fact that I am always taking and not giving much at the moment but I just do not feel in the right place to give outadvice and encouragement.
I just had my birthday last Thursday and it conincided idea with my D getting some retake exams results. She went away to a festival the day before and only returned yesterday but asked me to get them for her as she didn't want to know. I had my lovely friends stay with me and we had a great time so I wasn't on my own.
H texted me on my birthday to wish me a happy birthday and then kept asking me what D's exam results were. I didn't think he should be hounding me about it on my birthday so I just ignored the text and enjoyed myself. He then texted me again the next day asking for the results. Rightly or wrongly I just felt so resentful that he couldn't even be bothered to send me a birthday card but I'm expected to readily send him updates on my daughter. He fired me as his wife, he should have waited to ask her when she returned from the festival. In the end I told him and then at the end of the text I told him he can go back to ignoring me again. Off course no response.
I know it was PA of me but I am fed up that he just contacts me to get information on D because he knows she doesn't respond to him. I just fell so angry and hurt and confused. I just want to cut him out of my life but I also need to talk to him to find out some things because this not knowing is not healthy for me anymore. Does anyone have any thoughts? It has been over two years and I think by now he should be ready to talk...?
Last edited by job; 08/28/1801:27 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')
