I wish you would both read T3104 or whatever her screen name was. She endured hell on earth with her H. She was convinced with several small children her life was over. Within like six months she had a significant trade up and was living. Try to avoid the temptation to project the way you feel today over the rest of your lives. Time and distance really do make it better. When your self worth improves you will wonder why you ever wanted these men back. Take it day by day. Let go a little more each day, join the world a little more each day. Give yourselves time. Read DNJ’s posts on the MLC thread for someone who really gets this.
