Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
You're mind reading, hanging on to everything she says. What about her actions?

Don't try to predict the future here either. I know you want that crystal ball that tells you everything is going to work out but no one knows.


I suppose you're right. Obviously it's hard not to get hung up on what she says, cause that's all I really have to process. I'm not sure what kind of actions I should be looking for or aware of. I mean, short of her getting on her knees and begging forgiveness, what would you consider a positive action? Her little EA aside, she's not really a 'first move' kind of person, in any aspect of life.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14