Lonewlf, that's great you're getting so many compliments! At least if your wife isn't drawn to your changes you know other people are! If I was getting tons of compliments from men I'd probably feel better too. It seems the world is a better place when people compliment one another. I still hope your wife sees the light and comes back ready to do anything to reconcile but that's good to hear you're getting stronger both mentally and physically. I hope you'll stay on this forum and post when there's a breakthrough. I'm really curious to see how your situation will turn out.