She brought up the R talk. I just listened...which is a 180 for me.
Perfect. Did you gain any new insights?
Originally Posted by klau
Most years for our anniversary we've kept it fairly low key spending it with the kids usually on a weekend getaway since it's over labor day. I tend to be the one that plans the logistics of the trip and dinner that evening etc. We rarely exchange gifts...usually just relax and spend time together.
Might be a good idea to wait until she brings it up. If she was the planner, a different approach might work.
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