Originally Posted by Amoafwl
If you’re taking the kids on an overnight adventure somewhere, then I think it's reasonable to communicate that at this stage. If you’re taking them bowling or to the movies or whatever around the town where you live, then I don’t think detailed plans need to be shared.
Agree

Originally Posted by DavidUK
I dare not tell W if/when we are away for a couple of nights because she will be back in the house and going through my things etc. In a few days she's going to receive a childcare offer from my L for the kids to live most of the time with me.
Is she legally allowed in the house? if not, Change the Locks. Security cameras?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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