Besides, she doesn't tell me what she plans with the kids, and when she does it's usually not true.
Pass out what you want to receive. LEAD
I agree and disagree. If youre taking the kids on an overnight adventure somewhere, then I think it's reasonable to communicate that at this stage. If youre taking them bowling or to the movies or whatever around the town where you live, then I dont think detailed plans need to be shared.
But like R2C said, share what you would want shared with you.