She brought up the R talk. I just listened...which is a 180 for me.
Agree with the interaction. The therapist homework of 5 minutes of talk a day has been tough. W wants it to be R talk. good thing is I know nothing I say in those convos is going to help me so I'm just listening and she's ok with that.
Most years for our anniversary we've kept it fairly low key spending it with the kids usually on a weekend getaway since it's over labor day. I tend to be the one that plans the logistics of the trip and dinner that evening etc. We rarely exchange gifts...usually just relax and spend time together.
She's gone from pretty much zero contact in the last two weeks to having conversations with me over this weekend. So I'm nervous that I have an opening over this weekend to make an impact. I feel like counseling session Tuesday will hopefully give me some better insight.
