'when do we tell our friends we are getting separated'.
You or Her? This is R talk....Avoid
Originally Posted by klau
... her therapist told her to remember 'the problem isn't either of us, but the problem is the problem.' She then went on to express that she wants to 'give love a chance' for us and the kids, but its really hard.
The problem is also the interaction. You interacting different, FORCES the interaction to be different. Hard to argue with someone who doesn't argue back. Hard to hate someone who is loving you.
Originally Posted by klau
I've got this looming mid September deadline. Our 14th anniversary is in a week....not sure how that's going to affect things.
What have you done in the past to celebrate? Did you plan or did she?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
