Feeling emotional right now, how can W not want our lovely family to be together?
She does. And she doesn't. She's going through a whirlwind of emotions right now. She's on a journey of discovery. She's got to get to the root of why she is unhappy. Right now she thinks it's because of you and the M. That's why we preach detachment, you've got to remove yourself from the equation before she'll learn that you are not the problem. This is a marathon, the outcome is unknown. Your family may very well be together again. But it's going to take time.
I've not replied to her message asking how the kids are doing and wanting to know my plans with them. If she wants to know then she should make an effort to get back together. If she wants a D then she will have to get used to not knowing.
Besides, she doesn't tell me what she plans with the kids, and when she does it's usually not true.
