I resisted contact and W has sent me a message asking if the kids are OK and what my plans are to take them away for a few days. I don't yet have any plans to do that (but might have later). Should I reply?
YES.
Be a good parent. Communicate the important things to there mother.
We will being here from this time to this time. Son is sick. I am taking him to doctor ...
etc...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712