After following your journal entries last weekend, I just want to say that I am very happy for you. Don't backslide from your 180's, don't stop reading DR book and posting here.
And don't have expectations either, she can change her mind in a couple of hours, days, or weeks. (Mine did, twice)
Good luck.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.