I hate the cliche and lack of hope the above provides regarding W/MR but that's the ONLY choice I have. the finality and hopelessness of it, no chance/poof she's gone, move on. what a pointless waste of a marriage committed to in great love. young D with a broken family before she even knows the meaning of the word, means nothing to W. they just walk away/find someone else when they get "unhappy". h*LL it's me that got her there so, I'll take being the bad guy. sorry I'm just going to take those 3 lines and fade away. no need to continually post when the distilled finality of the only thing we LBSs can do is the above. please understand it's my pain/heartbreak that has me feeling this way. I'll update when the D is final.