I do read them every day. I'm following most of them pretty well I think.

Their mindset is just amazing to me. Even when she takes responsibility for her actions, there's always a 'but' after it. 'But the reason I felt this way was because of you.' It's so frustrating.

She has an IC appt tomorrow I think. I think it's awesome she's going, but obviously have some fear that the IC will guide her into being comfortable with leaving the M. Certainly not a thing I can do about that, so I shouldn't even worry.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14