You are rightfully angry because your w is with OM
You are using that anger to fuel your detachment
Well done
Because when you are detached
You do not care what the g p s says so no need to look
And you cannot let yourself be bothered by picking up her calls when inconvenient
Reply or call back when it fits your schedule
And if she attacks you for it
That will not bother you either
You can just say
I saw you called and texted
I have been really busy
What is up
Just like you would any other annoying not so close person in your life
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving