You can afford an IC and a NGS coach

But not a d b coach

Feel free to follow them and your own path

But the folks here are following a specific strategy

So really hard to give you advice if you are doing something else

No judgment

We are all trying

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving