As a man

Do not tell any woman

Particularly a woman with whom you are in conflict

You know why she is doing what she is doing

That is condescending

It is presumptuous

Do you have a d b coach

No idea how you can mix approaches


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving