Talking to attornery today and seriously contemplating filing for D. Affair continues, NC continues, detachment continues, but I feel like I need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. This isn’t out of anger, anxiety, etc, I feel this is my part of GAL, I don’t see her coming around unless she realizes she will lose her family and what she has now. Isn’t that the goal?
Is this out of impatience? When was BD for you? It was 3 months ago? You realize that that is a drop in the bucket. Expecting your W to turn around on this that quickly is grossly unrealistic. Now I am not suggesting that you don't talk to an attorney. You should. But I would consider taking more time to decide on if you want to pull the trigger.
If you want to file because YOU want to get D'd, then go for it. If you want to file because you want to stop the PAIN, then I would hesitate. Because that won't have the desired effect.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
