I was thinking of putting enough money in WW account for food(D eats at IL 99% of the time) and giving D a bankcard for whatever she needs,cutting the wive out of the picture. That would pisss the W off as she would stuggle without the help from me.It feels like im being spiteful though... but yeah she needs to deal with the mess she has created on her own i guess. Worried it will push her that bit closer towards OM, and blame me even more about not being there to support my family. Who am i kidding it cant get much worse!
So you think you can pay her to stay away from OM? How has that been working so far?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018