Your w is with an OM

Why are you going on drives together

Why is she borrowing your laptop

Your actions say

I am okay with this situation

And then you get upset when she implies

She is okay with this situation too

One thing you wrote earlier

You want to tell her you know why she is doing what she is doing

That is so condescending

Please do not say that

I do not recommend the talk you want

You do not sound ready for that

I have a feeling your counselor is not a d b coach

Hard to mix and match approaches


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving