You want to tell her you know why she is doing what she is doing
That is so condescending
Please do not say that
I do not recommend the talk you want
You do not sound ready for that
I have a feeling your counselor is not a d b coach
Hard to mix and match approaches
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving