Can I really do this #5

[Dtrmned]

Good weekend with the kids. Both together and individually we kept fairly busy and had some fun.
W made dinner last night and we ate together. She feels like she is withdrawing more and more, then at times she reaches out to chat. Mostly about the kids, but not just a generic conversation, more of an indepth talk about them. Just weird communicating with her. She did complain about each child over the weekend. I listened, validated and then went on.

Question of the day:

Our anniversary is about a week away. What do I do?

I know no gifts or outrageous stuff. Kind of feels weird to not do anything and it seems kind of strange to do something as well. I just don't know what the proper response is for this. We are still married.

Responses are greatly appreciated. And this is not a reason to pursue or give her pressure. THIS is what I'm trying to avoid without messing up along the way.