Hi EZ. Some of the behaviours you are describing have / are happening to me so it is surely a pattern. My BD happened just as we started major building works to renovate our house, something we had been planning for literally years. This has made the awful situation even harder. She threw pictures and memories of us in the building refuse, I also cannot find my wedding ring and all memories of our marriage have been erased. It is trying to inflict maximum pain I think. Don’t let it work. And narcissist - yes I think I am dealing with one too. Cake eating, gas lighting and inexplicable anger galore, even though this is what she wants. Bizarre. Oh and our house is still upside down, sleeping on mattresses etc. Urgggh.
