Some interesting things happening today, W has been more expressive over last week, especially the last day or two. She took s6, d3 and I out to lunch today and we all had a great time. Since I stopped pursuing and 180 ing she has become to express acts of affection towards me again.... Some minimal as they maybe... For example spending 15 minutes trying to get a deep buried splinter out of my hand, clipping the toe nails on my foot which has a broken ankle, and generally acting more concerned towards my well being. Just post BD 3 weeks ago she could barely look at me. A few days ago she commented she noticed my changes I am making with regards to some of the things I have done to push her away for so long. Her mother who we are caring for who is quite I'll has been under mainly my care lately as my ankle has me outbid hard duty work, and she has thanked me multiple times recently for The help I have been providing for her. She has begun to call me baby and hunny instead of by my name over the last few days as well. Just post BD she didn't really want to be around me in the same room etc, but the last 4 or 5 nights when she has come home from work she has wanted to spend the remaining time she had before bed watching TV or talking with me. No R or MR talks whatsoever lately just small talk and also future related planning talk as well. Yesterday when I told her ILY (slipped out) she responded with an ILYT. Not sure what any of it means, trying not to over think the situation but will remain focused at continuingto 180 on my bad habits and actions and validate her feelings when expressed. Prepared for R talk if it comes up in near future but hoping it just kinda falls into place on its own... Anyways any feedback or opinions are appreciated as I can always use insights. Thanks in advance. Take care.
