Maybe some detachment progress for me this last week:
1. Other women's attention helped me feel like this won't be the end. 2. Not feeling the need to answer/respond to WW's calls and texts. Especially since there's not much important, she just wants to chat about small stuff and string me along. 3. Was out with friend last night, talking to a couple people I know. They bring up WW and OM and start going on about how crappy they are. I get sucked in for a minute, but then said "Hey, let's talk about something else. I didn't come up to complain" and so we did. 4. Closed all the DB forum threads on my phone so I wouldn't be thinking about negative stuff. 5. I got a hunting dog Friday night, little black lab puppy 10 weeks old. Morning and evening training starts immediately and she'll get her first bird in a week or so. Her name is Gigi. Now that I won't be hunting with m FIL anymore I am planning the season without him. (Birds start in September and go into March depending on how excited you get about it).
Not fully detached, but working on it today!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.