you are getting played so hard. Everything you type is about her. Your W is not the same person you married, don't you see that? She is cheating right? Would you have married her if you knew that was going to happen?
Does your W work? You need to talk to a lawyer about cutting off funds. Do that this week please. Then be strong, you're not going to "nice her" back to the MR.
Your WW said "WE" need money. AKA she needs the money. But, but, but.... "she" needs space. She wants your money and for you to go away so she can sleep with the OM and have fun. And so far you are being a quiet little mouse.
Quit worrying about "getting the truth". You're getting lied to, sooooo "believe nothing they say and only half of what they do". REMEMBER THIS SAYING.
GAL should be easy without contact from your cheating wife - make it happen. You are so attached to her and I can see it from outer space, I guarantee your WW knows which is why she told you to piss off and pay her.
Find your strength and let go of this terrible person, she isn't going to magically become nice overnight and want to come back to the MR. You need to detach. Reread Cadet's links.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
