WW- Equalzr's saga pt 2. WW's & MLC'er advice plz

[equalzr]

Thanks Steve. I think i blew it by replying thanks for the apology. That clearly wasnt meant for me, butshe was trying to make herself feel better. I dropped the ball and asked her something later thay day about her saying she "never meant for this to happen", which i disagreed with because she chose to have an A, she chose to keep it going, and has chosen the path we are on now. She told me if she could do it all over again she would change it, and i called b.s. (not in those words) even though i should have kept my mouth closed and avoided the convo. The text just really ended up frustrating me, because i realized it wasnt about me. I told her that she had numerous opportunities to do thimgs differently but still kept down the same path.

Today we had an argument that was about finances. We honestly dont argue much, and never did argue at all throughout the R. W wants to find ways to make me look bad in front of S, and this is the 2nd time she has intentionally done it. Luckily my S is able to see through her intentions for the most part. He has called her out on making me seem like i havent done things for my family, and she just gets defensive and yells at him and eventually blames me for something.

During the financial argument on the phone, she tells me she was just telling our S the truth/facts. I reacted poorly and respomded that i will begin telling truths/facts about what shes been doing and hung up the phone on her. She called back multiple times and i didnt answer. Obviously she is worried im going to spill her beans, but i truly have no intention of doing that. She has no clue how nice ive been throught this whole thing. I could have handled this much differently, and feel that i had the right to if i did.

WW/MLC'ers are truly a handful to deal with. I will do better this week.... GAL, no arguing, be happy!