My W was in the marital home for 4 months before I moved back in and she moved out. During the first half of that time, all of the pictures of the two of us, and messages on the fridge and the like were all still up. When I got back to move in, she had cleared out everything. Just today I found a box with some of the pictures of us in them. That was hard to see. But there are still more that I don't know if she took them, burned them, or what. I also have no idea where my wedding ring since I left it in the house when I moved out. If she left it here, I haven't found it yet.

Don't read into it. That's just mind-reading and not productive. It's okay to have a reaction, but don't let it take you over. Hold the emotion lightly.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019