I do need to remember that having no expectations keeps me safe from getting riled up about her choices, statements, and actions.
Curious on another front...2 week’s ago when W got into mariatal home while I was out of town to get S6 swim suit, I have come to notice several pictures missing with only frames left. Also our wedding book appears out of no where in our entertainment hutch. I do believe W did this deliberately.
When she initially left, she left any pictures of us together up and actually placed some that were out of site for a time back into display. I don’t know if that’s apart of the MLC or WAS script to maximize the pain...but I do believe this placement of our marriage book is just plain evil.
Has anyone else had a similar experience where W or spouse essentially vanishes you from memory?
I’m 5 months into this and I know it shouldn’t bother me at this point, but is this testing of some sort?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
