Gordie 21 going with my gut

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Gordie,

I still have some regrets from my relationship with my WW and one prior relationship where issues led to pain for me.

Are you dealing with these issues, your fear of being vulnerable? Being vulnerable is being intimate, and that why affairs are so horrible. The true intimacy is in jeopardy.

I ask if you're dealing with them bc for me, I never dealt with them. I ignored and evaded my pain and it affe ted my MR negatively.

Listen to me, a rookie, offering one of the vets advice...haha.

I hope you get to that point of comfort and intimacy.