See, she flaked out anyways. So don't get mad at her, even though you're right to be mad when someone doesn't keep their word. Just drop the expectations that she'll do what she says.
No, I'm not mad in the least. We didn't have definitive plans to talk, and since we had it out Thursday night, I wasn't expecting anything today. Plus, my son's a little shy, so i knew there was a strong chance that he wouldn't want her to leave the party.
One very troubling thing she mentioned Thursday night that I've been thinking about. When she mentioned buying those concert tickets, she made a point to hint to me that she has ran up a ton of credit card debt. She has her own cards and I have my own. Like an idiot, I've never paid much attention to her spending. She didn't say how high they were, but said when I was talking about keeping our individual debts if we divorce, she has no idea how she'd afford to live because of all her debt. Should I bring this up again sometime soon???
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
