Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Absolutely do something, but maybe stick around the house or be available since you said you would talk during this time. Do not initiate the talk. Do not get sucked in when she "temp-checks" you. She may do this to see if you are still on the hook.


Thx. I just went downstairs for an hour banging out some tunes on the guitar. That always helps. W just texted and said she's staying at the party. I may go to the local bar/restaurant and get lunch


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14