I get S6 to calm down after he wa upset for a good 25min. I tell him W made mistake and shouldn’t have made plans during our time. We go to gym and do our things as normal. W starts blowing up phone and text saying it was her wknd. I hold ground and just point to our communication via text/email. She gaslit entire situation like she has been doing before. I did answer her call after a third time (mistake) and we get into argument. She hung up when I stood my ground...I paused for 5 minutes and called her back to say she could take S6 for the evening since I knew it was important to HIM. W then conceded she messed up...but didn’t say thanks or anything towards me being flexible.
I know what I did was for S, it still feel like I got trampled on and let W get her way again. She’s been nothing but self serving since BD.
I’m still doing my best to detach with love, but when I do interact with W, she takes up all the real estate in my head. She still is my ultimate trigger....and i May have let NGS impact me here.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
