I think I post asking about W and her a lot because Im so unsure about her. I have no idea what shes thinking or how to act in this situation. With a normal woman Im good. Working on myself is a process but Im working on me consistently. In regard to WAW I scratch my head like WTF many times... as weve discussed its doing the opposite of what I think would work.
Met new woman I a had been talking to last night in town. Immediately felt felt very comfortable and got along well. But there werent those firework spark feelings either... It seems like we already know each other somehow... very strange... Unsure. Going to see her again.
W had asked a week ago to get to know each other again. Before seeing new woman I asked W if she would want to get a bite or a drink next week. Maybe I would of cancelled if she had yes. But she didnt even respond. The next day she picked up D4. After leaving she asked if she did something wrong. I asked her about her lack of response and basically said no you didnt do anything wrong you are who you are. She said shes finicky.... I said would you tell a many youre interested in spending time with youre finicky? It was a brief convo which is good.
In my mind that question of asking her out was my last time. IF she makes her own 180 and wants to work towards R then I have to decide if I want that. Otherwise its D4, work, GAL, move on. I hope she comes around.
In regard to support ending at the end of september. I would think it would be divorce through mediation and with a 90 day cool down period at that time or work on R. I dont know about just cutting the support... I feel like it could lead to court and bigger issues.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18