More detachment. More letting go. Less communication. Let him tell you in advance when he needs a change and if it works for you, say yes only because it worked for you.
This ^^.
If it works for you, tell him yes, but if it's inconvenient, tell him no. There will come a time when your new boyfriend wants to fly you to Paris for the weekend when you have the kids, so don't hold him rigidly to the schedule because there will be times when you want to change it, too.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
