Originally Posted by Steve85
You can do whatever you want. I already addressed the communication issue with you earlier. What you do with the advice based on all of our experiences is up to you. But I think you'll be disappointed in the outcome if you become Mr. Deep Talker.

Anyway, DB rules are voluntary. Don't feel like you're obligated to follow them.


lol. Don't worry, I'm not going to become Mr. Deep Talker. For starters, it's just not my nature. I know I need to be more 'open', but I'm not going to turn into some dweeb talking about my feelings all the time.

But, I do have a question. Although who knows what can/will happen in 4 days. She apparently has an IC appt tuesday. Would it be appropriate for me to ask how it went or anything like that?


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14