And a follow up, she has noticed new clothes and is questioning why I needed them. Still just the start but she is still basically nc with me as a sign of loyalty to the OM. Not drinking either for the same reason and it lets her guard down to her true feelings for me.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019