bm, I would look at this a little differently. These kinds of incidents are actually good things. WAWs/WWs are notorious for thinking that splitting up the MR is the best things since sliced bread. That if they could just get rid of this lunk of a H out of their lives their lives would be all rainbows and unicorns. That the only thing holding them back is this crushing feeling of being stuck in an unhappy marriage with an awful H that has no way or idea how to make them happy.
That sounds really, really familiar...lol. I understand what you're saying though, and I know that these are good things. I've definitely been slower to answer calls, text, etc. The other day she asked me to call when I went to lunch...I conveniently "forgot" until about 10 minutes till I had to be back so that I wouldn't have to have a long conversation. Later that evening, she texted me and asked if I was busy, I said that I was (because I was, I had friends over), and asked her what was up...she said it wasn't anything important and she'd just talk to me later.
I still have no idea what she wanted to talk about. lol.
I definitely need to get back to being slower to respond, except that I know most of her calls are about S. She does talk a little about other things once in a while, but for the most part she seems to need some valid reason to talk to me, like asking me to pick up S, etc. Honestly, that's fine with me. Sometimes I'd just rather not talk. Not that I don't want to...but I'd just rather not.
So far it seems like things are starting to go better. Still going to keep on DB though.
