That is the plan...No reaching out.
I had an IC session today. It helps getting a professional point of view however, he has never been through what we have gone through. He admitted that he has no idea what it feels like. But hes seen it very very much. He was surprised of my knowledge and told me I was definitely doing the right thing. I plan on going NC until she contacts. I will be pleasant and nice if there is any contact from her. No more guessing when or anything like that.

I like the Light House analogy. In the mean time I am just going to keep moving. May catch up on here later tonight or tomorrow. Where did Sandi GO?? lol...shes already got a life!!
Thanks Steve / Vapo...great dudes for sure!!


ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15