Remember she is on her own emotional roller-coaster. This is her rebelling against what she is feeling. Your changes have caused her to start to want to stay together. She is rebelling against that. My W did the same thing. SHe'd let down her guard, we'd discuss the future. THen she we say or do something to remind me that she was planning on leaving.

Believe nothing she says. And only half of what she does. Seriously. Tomorrow she might say she wants to file for D right now. The next day that she never wants to see you again. The following day on and on and on and on.

WORDS

WORDS

Ignore them. Keep your head down working on detachment. Working on GAL. Working on 180s. Let her words roll of your back like water off a duck.

Yeah, don't ask for chances anymore. Just listen and validate.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018