Good point on the 180's. So here's a question for the group. Therapist asked us to talk 5 minutes everyday. So far as you can see from my initial post it's been all R related. I have initiated some of that.
It is typically recommend NOT to talk about the R. Any time I am having issues in my current R, I DO NOT R talk. I do not "pull the rope" ie argue.....Anything but R. Small talk. Humor. lots of listening...validate....flirting...
Originally Posted by klau
make it happen.
Yes make it happen.
Originally Posted by klau
..What if she has nothing to say?
Then you lead as the man....
Originally Posted by klau
I'm concerned that this next therapy session goes south because I avoid R convos and it appears that I'm not engaging.
Therapy is a safer place to talk R....
Any way you can make the convo "Fun"?
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