DB is counter intuitive T. But it takes time. Don´t get anxious. Relax, keep reading and posting. You must get her respect back. Believe nothing that she says. Read Over´s last post up here.
Have faith in yourself. Keep DBing. You have the strength. It will get better.
Thanks again Nef. I know it's counter intuitive. I'm just not sure it's having the desired effect of helping me, or helping our M.
I guess at the very least, a few weeks ago she was completely checked out, and didn't seem to have any feelings or emotions towards me. I don't think she ever hated me or was angry at me or anything, but she just didn't feel much of anything. Now she at least was mad at me, which is some form of caring/emotion.
Like I said, I know the 'game'. I just hate playing it.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
